the other coin of the same side

If a woman wants you, and you’re like me, you probably won’t know it till it’s [almost] too late.

If she doesn’t, you’ll know it in a GD hurry.

Don’t make excuses for her either.

There’s only enough blood in the male body to think
with one head at a time. Use the one on your neck
first.

Change is inevitable; it’s how things work. Don’t be
afraid of it.

The faster you drive, the bigger the wreck when you
lose control.

She is not the be-all, end-all of your existence. Just
because you’re together now, doesn’t mean you have to
stop being who you were. In fact, that’s probably the biggest
reason she’s with you in the first place.

Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry.
Resolve your conflicts sooner, rather than later; it’ll
be better in the long run.

If you think she’s using you, she probably is.

If you ever have the thought “Things will get better”,
ask yourself, “When did things get so bad that I had to
say that?” The answer to that question can say a lot
about the relationship you’re in, and where it’s going.

Those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it.
Learn from everyone’s mistakes.

If there’s kids, there’s another man involved
somewhere. Make sure it’s not going to be an issue.
If it is, re-evaluate.

You can have your guy’s nights; let her have her girl’s
nights.

Never cross a boundary that she hasn’t crossed first,
and never let her cross one of yours that you haven’t.

Talking with her won’t kill you; in fact, it may just
save your sorry ass.

NEVER put her on a pedestal. She’s only human, after
all.

Let it go.

Not all women are bitches.

Don’t worry about finding the Right One right away.

It’s not always a bad thing to not hear from her all
the time. Remember, she’s probably missing you, too.

Remember, [(your age)/2 + 9] = minimum age requirement, and if she’s not 18, she’s 12.

Never move into her mother’s house. Or her father’s.

If you can’t give her what she needs, then you need to
move on.

There’s nothing wrong with compromise. There is
something wrong with appeasement – remember WWII?

Don’t expect anything more out of the relationship than
what you are willing to put into it.

Never, EVER, hit her. EVER.

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